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- My future family as I see it
Every person, from childhood, has formed an image and understanding of the family, what it should be. After all, family is the most important thing that every child should have in life. And of course, she must be complete with mom and dad.
So, what should my future family be like? Of course, she must be big, strong and happy. In my family there must be a reliable and faithful husband on whom I can rely both in joy and in sorrow, and also, I cannot imagine my family without the laughter and fun of children. After all, children are the flowers of life, they are happiness. And the continuation of our future family.
This is how I imagine my future family: strong, friendly and based on trust, because these are the main facts that are the key to a happy family.
We must definitely have a large and beautiful house, built with a playground, gardens and a gazebo in the yard. For animals to live in the house, because children need to be taught that they need to be loved, cared for, and not offended. The cat and dog become an integral part of the family.
I imagine how we will spend time on weekends with our friendly family, go on vacation in the countryside or to the forest, or to the lake, or just spend time at home near the fireplace.
Raising children is hard work, but I am sure that we will succeed. And we will be proud of our kids, who will be able to achieve the best in their lives and will be able to please their parents with their successes.
In our home, we will constantly receive guests: parents and friends. After all, they are an integral part of our family. Of course, you need to constantly work on family relationships so that after years they do not fade away, but always remain the same as on the first day they met. Because, looking at their parents, children form their own understanding of their future family, and, while playing games, they imagine what kind of family they themselves should have.
Of course, these are all dreams about a future family, but I know for sure that my family should be built on love, harmony and respect for each other. So that children respect their parents, and parents are proud of their children. And let everyone in the world envy our friendly and strong family.
Option 2
Today I want to talk about how I see my future family.
I will definitely have a family. At about 25 years old I will marry the kindest girl in the world. She will be slender, with light eyes, sincere and honest. We will get married only if my chosen one also loves me. After all, according to the laws of the Universe, families should be created out of love, and not out of calculation. Naturally, my wife will be from a healthy family, without bad habits and with good genes, the strength of the family in every sense of these words.
I would like my family to have at least three children. So that they are of different sexes. I want to try myself as the father of a daughter and the father of a son. These are two completely different categories that help you look at people in a new way, understand and re-evaluate something for yourself.
During the first years of our life, my wife will give birth to children and take care of the household. And I will try to provide for my family financially. I'm not sure there will be enough money for everything at once. But what to do. Many people start this way. The children will begin to grow up and begin to help me. It would be nice if we lived in a private house so that we could have a vegetable garden. Living in a house is much more comfortable and cozy than in an apartment. We'll come up with some kind of business for my wife. It could be anything. From a dog grooming salon to a law firm. It depends on what kind of education she will have, depending on where her soul lies.
I will love my family and try to devote time to raising my sons and daughters. We will also find strength not to lose the romantic wave of the relationship with my wife. The wife will only become better, more beautiful and smarter from year to year. And I will also develop, become more courageous and more worthy.
I wish I had the strength not to leave my parents either. After all, they are primarily worthy of attention and care on my part. We will often visit grandparents and grandchildren, and sometimes leave the children with them for overnight stays.
My family will be friendly, strong and loving. I don't see it any other way.
My future family will bring me only joy and positivity. In order for the picture to coincide with reality, you need to take a responsible approach to the issue of creating a family. Which is what I will try to do.
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Essay on the topic My future family
I see my family as loving. It is most important. I will definitely have a family, I don’t want to be a bachelor. And this is not because I don’t like ironing or don’t know how to cook, but I want my wife to do it. (But I’m also not very good at hammering nails and repairing electrical appliances... But you can always call a real master!)
The main thing for me is to find my person. I have my own character, definitely not everyone will like me, my own interests... But I believe that I can find a person with whom we will be interested. She will learn something from me, and I will learn something from her. And we will love each other very much. We can talk about everything, remain silent.
We will walk and travel! And lead everyday life together. Play sports, go to theaters, visit parents. It will all be fun and friendly.
And we will have children or a child. I mean, one child or even several. I will teach him everything good that I know, I will take care of him. And we can communicate well together. The main thing is that we will be pleased in a place even to sit at home, watch TV, read books, draw.
We will definitely get a cat when the child grows up. He will also become a small part of our family.
Let’s not forget about our parents, we will visit often, but, of course, this will already be our family, a separate one. Together with my wife and child, we will decide how to spend the holidays, where to go on vacation, and we will consult. I think everyone will be happy!
In my family there will be no formal rules like “family hour” or mandatory “family lunch” on Sundays, but we will try to spend more time together, although everyone may have their own interests and acquaintances. Everyone should have personal space and it should be respected.
It will probably take me a long time to choose a wife, but it’s important to choose the right one. And you need to turn on your heart - not just think with your head, make lists of qualities.
And we will look after the love that will exist between us, that is, preserve this feeling and develop it. And my wife will definitely be beautiful and smart, and I will become a good husband.
Traveling with small children: how we achieved it
Mike and I love to travel. After having children, we vowed that we would find a way to continue doing this, now as a family. In fact, we climbed Kilimanjaro when I was four months pregnant (after getting the go-ahead from my doctor, of course) because we had paid for this amazing adventure in advance and really didn't want to give it up.
After Tyler was born, we mostly traveled around America. But our son, like his parents, became an adventurer in infancy. He made his first flight at eight weeks old - without the slightest problem. And by the time Amber was born four years later, I think Tyler was logging more miles than the average adult passenger. Amber was on a plane for the first time at twelve weeks old, and now, at seven and three, our son and daughter have plenty of miles to their name and a couple of border crossing stamps in their passports. We are all lucky enough that travel is still an important and wonderful part of our lives.
Admittedly, it was not only providence that allowed us to continue visiting various exciting places after having children. It was on all the vision boards and we were intentional about doing whatever it took to make it happen. We traveled with the children from a very young age to get them used to traveling; we took them to various events. Tyler attended his first concert in Colorado when he was six months old; he traveled to Grand Cayman and Mexico, skied in Colorado and did much, much more - all before his sister was born.
However, Amber has had her share of great adventures, including visiting Niagara Falls, swimming in the Pacific and Atlantic oceans, and visiting Legoland California - twice. In short, for a while everything was going just fine, but then the situation changed.
Sample 4
The sages say: “Remember the past, live in the present, think about the future.” There comes a time in the life of every young man when he must think about what his future family will be like.
There are a huge number of families in the world. They are all different: poor and rich, big and not so big... But the main thing is that there are happy families and families that are not so lucky. First of all, I see my family as happy.
Happiness for me is when family members love and understand you, and are ready to share your sorrows and joys. When your loved ones are proud of your successes and are always ready to support you in difficult times, and you, in turn, understand and share their concerns and aspirations, and try to help them fulfill their dreams.
For this, mutual understanding in the family is very important. It seems to me that many family problems are related to the fact that family members no longer understand each other: the husband does not understand the wishes and needs of his wife (or vice versa), the parents do not understand what the children want, and the children think that their parents are not modern. To prevent this from happening, I will devote a lot of time to my family, listen carefully to my children, and will be not just a parent to them, but also their best friend.
It seems to me that there should definitely be children in the family. After all, it is thanks to children that the thread stretches from our past through our present to our future. Of course, there are families in which there are no children, but the existence of such families seems pointless to me. Even if for some reason related to the health of the husband or wife, a married couple cannot have their own children, you can always adopt a child. After all, this will make everyone happy: the child will find loving parents, and the husband and wife will be able to pass on family traditions to him and raise him as a worthy member of society.
And yet, a family is not only dad, mom and their children. These are grandmothers, grandfathers, aunts, uncles, close and distant relatives. All of them are connected by inextricable family and kinship ties, the achievements of each of them are a joy for all family members, and their problems are the problems of the entire large family.
Of course, family members can be different in temperament, character and outlook on life, and therefore misunderstandings, disputes and even quarrels can sometimes arise in a close-knit family. The main thing here is that all family members try to help each other resolve the contradictions that have arisen between them, resolve the conflict, find a compromise, and again achieve internal harmony. It’s not for nothing that the word “family” itself means “seven I,” and therefore I want peace, friendship and love to reign in my family.
Holidays and leisure
In the essay “Your Ideal Family” you need to remember about joint vacations . Every holiday, all relatives should get together. It doesn’t matter whose birthday it is—an uncle’s or a grandmother’s—everyone is invited to the same house to sit together at the celebratory table.
On weekends, the family can stay at home or go out to have fun. At home, they watch movies together, have intimate conversations over dinner, do repairs or take care of the garden together, cook food, or invite guests over. The family should be hospitable and get along with all neighbors.
If you don’t want to sit at home, then you can go out of town and have a picnic. And also go to the cinema, amusement park, dolphinarium and other establishments where adults and children will find it interesting. It is imperative to alternate between work and rest.
Sometimes parents and children can have fun separately. The child can be sent to his grandmother, then the spouses devote time only to themselves - have a romantic dinner, visit friends or go to parties. Teenagers are also not interested in vacationing with their parents. They are already going on first dates or just hanging out with friends. But children should introduce their close friends to their parents so that father and mother do not feel anxious.
You can also visit grandparents together. They are already elderly, so they need attention and care. It is advisable to help them around the house, tell them the latest news, and inquire about their health and problems. If your elderly relatives are no longer there, you can go visit your neighbors and offer your help to them.
The idea of an ideal family can easily be translated into reality if you yourself are attentive and caring towards your relatives. They will try to respond in kind, which will contribute to the emergence of mutual understanding and respect.
How to continue traveling without compromising your children's education
When Tyler entered junior school, our previous plans no longer worked for us. For the first time in our married life, we felt that we couldn’t go on a trip whenever and wherever we wanted. Now we had to plan trips around our school schedule, and we weren't doing that very well. We tried traveling during the holidays, but by the end of the school year we felt exhausted. Therefore, we decided to look for another, more successful solution. But first we had to understand what exactly we want.
And then one day on a date, Mike and I took out a piece of paper and came up with the perfect way out of the situation. On the one hand, we wanted our son’s education to be strictly organized, on the other hand, we needed a certain flexibility in this process. In short, it had to be a school that offered the same level of freedom that we enjoyed when Tyler was in kindergarten.
Once we knew what we wanted, we conducted research by surveying all the schools in our area. We asked the administrators one question: “What if in January we want to spend a month in Colorado as a family?” And in all schools the same reaction awaited us - a dissatisfied grimace. We even considered homeschooling, but with all the travel and work schedules, we weren't sure how to organize it.
My brother Temka
I also want to talk about my brother. Artem came to us after me, and I was even jealous of my parents. It seemed to me that Temka was loved more because he was more handsome and affectionate. I just didn’t know how to attract attention to myself so that my mother would know how much, how much I love her and my dad. But everything turned out the other way around: out of despair, I threw tantrums, got a “B” at school and upset my parents more and more. It was difficult for me to accept Temka, but over time I suddenly realized how wonderful it was to have a brother. My parents were very worried when we quarreled and offended each other, so they began to organize common family affairs. Together with my dad, we repaired the car, cleared the snow in a race, played snowballs and sculpted a snow woman: we, in a team with Tema, competed with mom and dad. So imperceptibly we became a real family. I was even surprised when I realized that I was no longer offended at all when my parents praised Tema. Artem is sad very often, and then I really want to dream about the sea with him...
Temka ended up in an orphanage because his mother, whom he loved very much, died. It’s more difficult for my brother to get used to the new life, he still misses his family, but I’m sure that my mother’s love will definitely warm his heart and the past will let him go.
We see how upset our parents are that we get C grades, and Temka even gets D grades, but we don’t want to upset them at all. It’s just that before in the orphanage, no one cared what grades we got, and our mother really wanted us to be the best students in school. We want this too, but so far nothing has worked out, even though we try very hard.
